PLS TAKE A MINUTE TO VOTE, LETS GIVE OUR GIRL CHILD A CHANCE!

Why does the girl child in western Africa go through rape, molestation, domestic violence etc and is ultimately still blamed for it?

— Duchess K.Mitchell (@Blue_boat94) June 4, 2020

#JUSTICE FOR ANY WOMAN WHO HAS EVER BEEN RAPED, MOLESTED OR SUFFERED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!

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I apologize in advance for what am about to write but believe me am not SORRY😖😖 This right here is the reasons why things will never change in Nigeria, instead of people to demand for justice these CAUSED, UNCIRCUMCISED, DERANGED, PATHETIC, MORALLY CORRUPT, WASTE OF SPERM, people who should have been aborted by their mothers come out and try to justify the actions of the rapists. Schools are closed, why is she reading? Churches are closed why did she go there? May be she was looking for it? Really😟😟😟 you BASTARDS!! RETARDS!! should be chained and thrown into the lion's den. These things keep happening and our daddy's and Mummy's in the lord keep quiet, the church is meant to be a safe haven for its members and if a heinous crime like this is committed the body of christ SHOULD SPEAK UP for its members who have no voice. Silence is not acceptable and to all of you MEN who feel you have the right to devour a woman's body MAY THE PLAGUES THAT THE EGYPTIANS EXPERIENCE BE YOUR PORTION A THOUSAND FOLD. THe bible says " I will visit the sins of the father's on the sons up to the fourth generation" #justiceforuwa #saynotorape #womenshouldbesafe #heartbroken #pained #Intears #wecandobetter #letstrainourboysbetter #noisno #justicefortina JUSTICE FOR EVERY WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN RAPED, MOLESTED AND ABUSED BY MEN WHO WERE SUPPOSED TO PROTECT THEM💪💪💪

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BREAKING NEWS: EX COP AND ACCUSED KILLER DEREK CHAUVIN BAIL IS SET AT $500K

This right here is clearly a set up....

And you wonder why people are still protesting?

#JusticeForGeorgeFlyod #protests #dcprotest #atlantaprotest #MinneapolisUprising #chicagoprotest #SanJose #nycprotests

NIKE SHOWS SUPPORT TO PEOPLE OF COLOUR #RIPGEORGEFLOYD

Let’s all be part of the change.#UntilWeAllWin pic.twitter.com/guhAG48Wbp

— Nike (@Nike) May 29, 2020

BREAKING NEWS: PORTLAND JUTICE CENTRE HAS JUST BEEN SET ON FIRE #georgefloyd #protesters

George Floyd protests escalate in Portland as demonstrators set Justice Center on fire https://t.co/v6CVj0vhOD

— Duchess K.Mitchell (@Blue_boat94) May 30, 2020

HAPPENING NOW:SECRET SERVICE ON GUARD AS PROTESTERS CHARGE TOWARDS THE WHITE HOUSE...#dcprotest #georgefloyd

Secret Service on guard as George Floyd protesters rally outside White House https://t.co/2elgNEl50Q

— Duchess K.Mitchell (@Blue_boat94) May 30, 2020

BREAKING NEWS: THE U.S DEATH ROLL FROM CORONA VIRUS TOPPED 100,000

                       

The U.S. death toll from coronavirus topped 100,000 on Wednesday, a startling milestone just four months after the country's first case was confirmed. 

It remains the highest death toll from the virus in the world and surpasses the U.S. military combat fatalities suffered in every conflict since the Korean War. 

Johns Hopkins University said there were at least 100,047 American deaths from coronavirus as of Wednesday evening. The figure is more than double the deaths in any other country. 

SPIRITUAL CHECK 101: WHO ANCHORS YOUR LIFE?

“Do you have an anchor? I have found that a solid anchor is indispensable to one who intends to live life fully. To have an anchor is to be centered and well grounded. It is to have a vital spiritual base.”
― Steve Goodier

Some years ago, one of my brothers told me his experience while spending the night at his friends place and it just stock with me, he said they went out had drinks and just generally enjoyed themselves, talked about business, politics and of course girls but my brother kept asking him how come you are so successful in business and practically anything you set your heart to do, abi you dey rub something somewhere "laughing" his friend replied "No worry guy you go soon know" . That night he kept hearing some funny noises coming from his friends room, he decided to take a peep through the door knob to see what exactly was going on and whole and behold, his friend was.......PRAYING and this went on for almost 3hrs Wow!!! Shock is not even enough to comprehend what he felt, ehhh!! So this guy can even pray, talk more of praying that long, rolling on the floor, sweating ah!!! And then when its morning he dresses up, smelling nice, stepping into his nice car and you are biting your lips saying...Chei!! see fine boy!!!

NIGERIAN MEN AND THEIR FALSE SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT...

“The abusive man’s high entitlement leads him to have unfair and unreasonable expectations, so that the relationship revolves around his demands. His attitude is: “You owe me.” For each ounce he gives, he wants a pound in return. He wants his partner to devote herself fully to catering to him, even if it means that her own needs—or her children’s—get neglected. You can pour all your energy into keeping your partner content, but if he has this mind-set, he’ll never be satisfied for long. And he will keep feeling that you are controlling him, because he doesn’t believe that you should set any limits on his conduct or insist that he meet his responsibilities.”
― Lundy Bancroft

Show me a Nigerian man and i will show you someone who feels women are his BIRTHRIGHT...We are so invested in bringing up our girls to be beautiful and committed wives that we NEGLECT the sons who eventually grow up to be husbands and fathers..Hmmmm!!

MUST READ: WHY ARE YOUNG LADIES SO INFATUATED WITH LOVE POTIONS? aka #kayamata

 

Recently, i had a conversation with a really close friend and my one question to her was....Ore!! how come most ladies in Nigeria especially those that live in Lagos, all have the same complexion and body structure? Why do they all want to live a certain kind of life style but don't want to work for it? Why is dating married men now the new norm and they even boast about it? Why are they so consumed with the thought of acquiring material wealth without considering the pains they inflict and homes they break? etc

Thus, people see this desperation's and take advantage of it offering them QUICK SPIRITUAL SOLUTIONS aka KAYAMATA!!!!

There was a time when people would cover their faces, wear disguising cloths and travel all the way to some dilapidated, scary looking building to see one baba who they feel could solve their problems but now the JUJU or JAZZ is well packaged and delivered to your door step.

MENTAL ILLNESS STIGMA: HOW WE FAILED OLUWAFUNMILOLA ADISA!!

“A sick thought can devour the body's flesh more than fever or consumption.”

― Guy de Maupassant, Le Horla et autres contes fantastiques

 

As a follow up from my previous post "The girl who killed her daughter" i must say that personally i kept clinching my fist because my son is about the same age as her late daughter and from watching this video it was so certainly obvious, that innocent girl could have been saved on so many levels. That beautiful soul would have been alive if we would for once be able to SEPARATE our faith from REALITY......yes mental illness is a reality!!

 

We failed this mother, we failed her family, we failed her dead daughter ....  There was a thread and NOBODY took proper actions:

 

1. SHE WAS RAPED but she told her sister and nothing was done, so she blamed herself for going there classic case of SELF ACCUSATION.

THIS IS INCREDIBLY HEART BREAKING AND TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE: SHE NEEDS TO BE MENTALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY EVALUATED ASAP!!!

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Oluwafunmilola Adisa, 22, who drowned her one-year-old daughter, Oluwanifemi and turned herself into the police has revealed why she took the action. . Her reasons range from shame at her single-motherhood status to its effects on her education and the fact that the father of her child played no role in her life. . She, however, said she was prepared to face the consequences of her actions. ---- Follow us for breaking news and videos. ---- #Lagos #mother #daughter #drowning #singlemother #police #punchnewspapers

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MUST WATCH- I PRAY THIS MESSAGE BLESSES YOU AS MUCH AS IT DID ME!

MY SUCCESSES PART 3 (MRS SERIES )

Well, your guess is as good as mine making all these CHANGES brought with it lots of BACKLASH!! People just spitting VENOM at me....

-SO SHE THINKS SHE IS BETTER THAN US ABI?
-WELL @ THIS RATE YOU MAY JUST DIE SINGLE
-SEE, BABE IF YOU CONTINUE BEEN THIS RIGID, NO MAN WILL MARRY YOU OH!
-WHY ARE YOU SO DAMN SELECTIVE
-WHAT IF AFTER WAITING TO MARRY MR PERFECT, YOU END UP NOT HAVING KIDS IMMEDIATELY?

It got so bad that at a point, i started second guessing myself "was i really doing the right thing" "was it even worth it" . But i was DETERMINED to SERVE GOD and LIVE RIGHT and nobody was gonna to TALK ME OUT of my NEW FOUND LIFE.....
 
When the opportunity came for me to relocate, i held back for over a year because i was scared of the UNKNOWN and most importantly, i didn't just want to up and leave. So after various consultations and not to sound TOO SPIRITUAL much prayers i had peace, so i packed up my essentials and LEFT NAIJA.

So after i landed, i located a young, friendly and most importantly MIXED church. One were i could easily integrate myself, worship without feeling out of place of course MEET PEOPLE!! Yes oh lets not forget that this sister is still SINGLE. Friends taught i was CRAZY spending all my free time in church and not HANGING OUT WITH THEM don't get me wrong am not against those who do but at that pint in my life, it wasn't my PRIORITY.

MY RESOLUTIONS...PART 2 (MRS SERIES)

My dear SINGLE SISTERS, there is nothing absolutely wrong in wanting a GREAT GUY, one who will take care, honor, nurture, respect, love and eventually MARRY YOU. But after dating for a while and it wasn't working i decided to take a step back and INVEST more in myself spiritually, emotionally,mentally, physiologically, intellectually etc

I was determined to sort of REBRAND and REDISCOVER myself and like my mom will say, i had a ONE MAN MEETING with myself. Thus making some very DRASTIC and BRUTAL changes in my life and caring less about the consequences, i didnt care who got hurt in the process.. YES!! i became SELFISH, i was DONE trying to please people.

I just couldn't continue doing the same thing, hoping the results would be different, MEN!!! @ this point i cared less.

I made some RESOLUTIONS and some of them INCLUDED: