MY RESOLUTIONS...PART 2 (MRS SERIES)

My dear SINGLE SISTERS, there is nothing absolutely wrong in wanting a GREAT GUY, one who will take care, honor, nurture, respect, love and eventually MARRY YOU. But after dating for a while and it wasn't working i decided to take a step back and INVEST more in myself spiritually, emotionally,mentally, physiologically, intellectually etc

I was determined to sort of REBRAND and REDISCOVER myself and like my mom will say, i had a ONE MAN MEETING with myself. Thus making some very DRASTIC and BRUTAL changes in my life and caring less about the consequences, i didnt care who got hurt in the process.. YES!! i became SELFISH, i was DONE trying to please people.

I just couldn't continue doing the same thing, hoping the results would be different, MEN!!! @ this point i cared less.

I made some RESOLUTIONS and some of them INCLUDED:

Happy New Month Guys....

I am so overwhelmed but grateful for the feedback i have gotten since my last post, honestly guys am humbled. 

So for those who do not know me please allow me RE-INTRODUCE  myself......My name is Kenechukwu Mitchell nee Okoye, born and raised in Lagos Nigeria.  I live and worked in Lagos up until March 2017 when i PARKED UP and relocated to the United States. This BIG MOVE happened because i felt Nigeria didn't have much to offer me anymore, after so many deliberations and planning i moved.  I moved up here in March, met hubby in June and got married in November of the same year and then had my beautiful son in August of the next year, YEAP!! my life has been on a very fast lane since i got here.

But lets back roll a bit, you see been a naija single lady in her 30`s with a nice job and tasteful apartment but NOT MARRIED😏 Aunty you have not achieved anything oh!! So before my BIG MOVE i decided to make some VERY BRUTAL AND ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE changes in my life. 

Aside from going through a THOROUGH SPIRITUAL CLEANSING thanks to my spiritual mentor PASTOR KOLAPO BELLO  helping me purge my mind,emotions and focusing more on my walk with God. 

I wanted something different, for so long i had tried ON MY OWN to SETTLE DOWN but hey!! THIS GIRL WAS STILL VERY SINGLE.

MY MISTAKES.... PART 1(MRS SERIES)

Dating for me started pretty late because if you were brought up by my TEACHER MOM who is not ASHAMED or EMBARRASSED to disciple you ANYWHERE and ANYHOW😄 you would understand that you should always be in line.

But despite all the love and attention i got from home been the only daughter in the midst of 4 BROTHERS, Lol i still craved for some kinda attention from the opposite sex but looking back on some of the people i let into my life from back then, i feel very disappointed but growing up in Nigeria and been in your 30's AND NOT MARRIED...

You just tend to let people who do not even have any business being in your life STAY!!

So what were some of theses MISTAKES i made in my RELATIONSHIPS...