Hmmm.....this is one topic that am so passionate about and it bring out my not too pleasant side.
He gives you the first shove and then a push...and you still stay (He has not even married you oh! in some very pathetic cases) I love him..she responds....Do you know what other go through in their own relationships? Is because of advices like this that am not married! Can you even believe the flimsy excuses she gives for getting a black eye?
He gives you the first shove and then a push...and you still stay (He has not even married you oh! in some very pathetic cases) I love him..she responds....Do you know what other go through in their own relationships? Is because of advices like this that am not married! Can you even believe the flimsy excuses she gives for getting a black eye?
It beats my imagination how a fully grown and well developed (i presume) man would lift his hand with all the masculine veins there in, to hit a woman he profess love to and went through all the marriage rites just for her to bear his name. What in this world would make a man beat a woman (when i mean beat am talking both physically and emotionally) to the extent that she is hospitalized, traumatized and looking like a shadow of herself.
Recently, it has become a daily occurrence in our society were a woman is mandated to "keep" her marital issues private...right from the wedding day the new bride is brain washed into keeping her home private. Don`t get me wrong, i am not an advocate for spilling your private matters in public but if he abuses you either physically or emotionally then that cord has been broken, you need to SHOUT OUT LOUD to your family at least.
I can`t begin to understand how you would allow him BEAT AND BEAT AND BEAT until he takes away the beautiful soul of your womanhood. Look, the truth is this MARRIAGE in Nigeria is over rated. And particularly, i have a bone to pick with that friend,family member,colleague etc who would advice this very vulnerable and broken woman to go BACK to the MONSTER that beat her blue/black.
Once he ATTEMPTS TO hit you....Girl you have have two options:
1.Either you make sure that hand doesn`t come down or
2. Run for your dear life.
And as a single lady...if he keeps checking on you, trying to perceive male colon on you, calls you 59 times in less than an hour....hmmm!!!! when normal people are supposed to be working, calls you all sorts of names because you didn`t pick the first call, runs down his ex because he can`t do no wrong, causes you on one line while he apologies on the other...RED FLAGS don`t be deceived THIS IS NOT LOVE OH! IT IS OBSESSION (The Senior brother to a potential wife beater)RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE.
He is a demented, deranged, paranoid, loco,loony,disturbed,mentally imbalanced, paranoid,derailed i can go on and on really...you don`t need that kinda guy in your life. There are better men out there..believe me (I have 4 of them, Lol) Pls Look before you leap, watch and pray also make sure you give him the litmus test #Wink
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Once he ATTEMPTS TO hit you....Girl you have have two options:
1.Either you make sure that hand doesn`t come down or
2. Run for your dear life.
And as a single lady...if he keeps checking on you, trying to perceive male colon on you, calls you 59 times in less than an hour....hmmm!!!! when normal people are supposed to be working, calls you all sorts of names because you didn`t pick the first call, runs down his ex because he can`t do no wrong, causes you on one line while he apologies on the other...RED FLAGS don`t be deceived THIS IS NOT LOVE OH! IT IS OBSESSION (The Senior brother to a potential wife beater)RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE.
He is a demented, deranged, paranoid, loco,loony,disturbed,mentally imbalanced, paranoid,derailed i can go on and on really...you don`t need that kinda guy in your life. There are better men out there..believe me (I have 4 of them, Lol) Pls Look before you leap, watch and pray also make sure you give him the litmus test #Wink
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